All I can start with is wtf?
Really WTF?
LOOKS LIKE the Queen Bee's days might be numbered...
Turns out that ole Betsi gotta a few issues going on people might not be aware of.
For one, it turns out, I guess that she is holding private property secretive councils, as we already know, that make decisions that effect the outcomes of the Great Lakes Rainbow Family and their gatherings.
BUT... it turns out she is not even going to any of the fucking gatherings!
WTF?
Pretty twisted if you ask me.
Running things fucking behind the scenes and in secret but not even going?
That actually is only the secondary reason why I say WTF?
The first reason is even more fucked up.
Do you remember this Scumbag?
Well... it turns out that ole Betsi is one of those disgusting people that have always stood by sexual predators and chomos!
Including this summer when she stood by and up for the guy above named Koi.
It is people like her that are fully responsible in believing doing nothing about these sexual predators and "walking them out" of the gatherings after holding their own kangaroo court councils and only shaming them.
Well... that was easy huh?
No...
And Koi is a perfect example of why.
He was shamed and walked out.
He returned.
Pretty fucked up but not as fucked up more than the fact he has done similar things in the past and the same outcomes of being welcomed back.
KNOWING IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN!
And people like ole Betsi want to protect these people and allow them to walk amongst us and our children.
No big deal!
Nothing another kangaroo court council with some more additional shaming and a "walk out" yet again.
Ok.... HELLO!
WAKE THE FUCK UP!
How does one deal with a situation like Koi?
Tough question to think about but there ARE answers that will come which truly needs to be and should be talked about to find and reach together.
My fucking opinion only...
Shanti Sena ESCORTS at all time after it happens.
As many as it takes but being PEACEFUL and no more than what is needed case by case!
Shant Sena ESCORTS to be with victims until the final solution and outcome is achieved.
They ARE a victim at that time and need to start a path of becoming and being a survior with whatever support they might need THERE or in the future.
Nothing more.
NO walk out.
No shaming to make one get agro.
MAYBE shunning by others?
MEANWHILE... LEO should be called and the PROPER authorities notified ASAP without the person knowing or realizing if possible.
OTHER Shanti Sena waiting for LEO to arrive and to immediately escort them to find the individual being watched with their escorts.
No assaults.
No kidnapping.
No mobs or mob justice.
We are NOT vigilantes.
NO violence.
Shanti does mean PEACE does it not?
And nothing to further cause any more issues that might happen or arise that may encourage, escalate, or incite violence from ANY parties involved.
Let the fucking LEO do their damn job.
That IS what they ARE there for!
They will probally be there extremeley fast to deal with it and get the person as well as any MUCH NEEDED statements and such for evidence and their eventual reports.
AND THEN STAND THE FUCK BY EACH OTHER, THE PEOPLE IT HAS HAPPENED TO, AND TOGETHER TO MAKE IT ABSOLUTELY FUCKING CLEAR TO ALL THAT THIS IS NOT WHAT IS WANTED WITHIN RAINBOW AND AT IT'S GATHERINGS NOR WILL IT BE TOLERATED BY ANY OF US AS A WHOLE... the whole we should be in the first place!
And don't forget or just brush it under that famous Rainbow rug to hide and be forgotten and ignored...
I guess it is time for me to be real or unreal.
You decide...
I don't do trigger warnings and shit.
But I will say some of you adult SA surviors might not like my words in a moment.
IT is now up to you to decide if you want to read.
When it involves a minor...
It is the parents responsibility to take care of that minor.
No fucking doubt the laws say so.
On top of that it is YOUR responsibility to fucking report it AND SPEAK for your children or you ARE breaking REAL laws and if shit gets out you did not report it you just might get your childen removed for a bit one day.
Many states act first and ask questions later as they investigate.
Better safe than sorry philosophy.
And it does catch up.
I know this... when I got into the medical field I took various oaths. One of those oaths was to REPORT any knowledge I have that involves SA or abuse of minor children and the elderly.
The most fucking vulnerable that often can't speak for themselves or know how.
YOU ARE THEIR VOICE!
WE are...
DO FUCKING JUST THAT YOUR FUCKING SELF and with others help if needed!
Are you going to feel responsible when Koi eventually does it AGAIN one day down the road to another 10 year old girl but maybe even advance his crimes?
Or THAT child ends up gone to be found dead in a creek covered in foliage?
Watch it on Dateline reruns one day?
Doubt it if you report it.
And Koi is a KNOWN re-offender!
I KNOW this...
There are MANY of us that will STAND BY YOUR SIDE through those scary times and even walk you through the processes needed. AND... with YOUR permission DO IT and even SPEAK for you if needed. I KNOW I would! And MANY others... some trained, and have before.
AND it is not about what that child wants!
Then get those children any help they might need or require if needed and when needed as needed.
Nuff said.
Okay... sisters or even brothers.
You are fucking adults so act like it.
What you just read above is the same fucking thing for and pertains to you.
You are grown-ups in a quite real world.
I often see posts made of where a SA survivor often say they never reported it.
How many more other SAs would be prevented if you spoke up?
How many more WILL happen if you don't?
Now I was one of those agro whiskey drunk agro assholes online when yahoo, MSN, AGRo, and Facebook were just starting up and being used.
I still remember those sister circle written "wars" online.
I was against them because some sisters stood by that but saying it was okay but insisted there be no male only circles and be allowed at any of those themselves.
Who the fuck cares about all that shit when it deals with something like this.
Go to your fucking sisters only... if it helps you and THEY WILL help you through the process and the unfortunate things that happened.
And... STAND BY YOU!
BUT FUCKING REPORT IT!
People like KOI and others need to be dealt with to keep the Rainbow family and it's gatherings safer and as safe as we can.
And don't even feel like you would be a narc like I often hear a person say.
NO ONE... can say that this is not a tricky topic or subject to talk about.
IT IS!
And will be.
BUT NEEDED!
And lately more than ever and SHOULD HAVE been a very long time ago!
They ARE uncomfortable of course.
Some WANT these discussions but some don't.
They are needed regardless...
Unfortunately almost every time it comes up on various Facebook Rainbow groups it is quickly censored by the leaders of the NRO Heirarchy which prevents the people that feel the need to talk about it being able to do so as I am here now.
Silencing surviors needs to stop also.
Whether it is to prevent the outside world from seeing the TRUE bad things so the NRO can continue to say it is not a problem or if is because some of the people in their own personal circles, that are some of these known and proven offenders, are their friends... it IS happening!
Some fucking friends huh?
They are preventing us from being able to speak our minds and try and attempt to reach solutions to prevent future issues from arising with other offenders down the road by having those discussions.
The lack of actions have clearly made some feel that they can get away with it and only encourages it.
NO MORE!
Well... I guess that is enough of my PSA and this subject matter.
For now at least.
And ole Betsi ya Queen Bee...
You ARE pathetic and should be truly ashamed of your self.
No kangaroo court council, any talk, or shaming will be good enough for you I do believe.
You should of course be always welcomed at ANY gatherings.
BUT...
IF it was up to me?
I think when you approach people they should look you straight in your fucking eyes and say nothing.
Then turn around and walk off.
A BUNCH of that just might actually work?
Hopefully you would get the picture and want to change to not be shunned anymore?
OR JUST FUCKING LEAVE ON YOUR OWN FREE WILL WITH YOUR OWN DECISION OF DOING SO AND ON YOUR OWN ACCORD...
...to hopefully WANT to change and come back and be welcomed again.
But meanwhile... it is starting to look like a new and different Rainbow Clean Up Crew is starting to show up around you.
We will call them the Asian Giant Hornets...
They are coming along to destroy that secretive cabal of the NRO Heirarchy you control in the Great Lakes region and gonna wipe out that personal beehive of yours that you worked so hard to build over the years!
And give it back to the people!
Fuck you...
Pretty soon it WILL be OUR HOME again!
Welcome the fuck to OUR home!
